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CONTROL YOUR SEXUAL URGE IN 7STEPS!

So this has been a burden in my soul and pouring it out I believe is the best thing to do. Wow! Sex! Sex!! Sex!!!

Sex is something that is all over the place and no matter how some persons try to shy away from it, it won't stop the fact that it has to be talked about and practised. Regrettably, the world we are in today has almost succeeded in misleading many singles that the best way to be socially pertinent or really prove they love someone, is by having sex.

Numerous inexperienced species have become fearful of sex yet relaxed with porn, some are punctured in the ring of falling into sexual seductions and keep wondering if they can ever get out of it. On the contrary, some believers(Born Again)will never share their struggles for fear of being looked down on, there is this solace around sex chat than physical intimacy. To the point of hearing words like, Our bodies were distanced. We didn't sleep with each other. πŸ€”
Sexual urges now stare at our faces as the impossible that can't be subdued as a result of struggles...

Now the question still persists in the heart of many singles. Can sexual urges be controlled? What transpires when my body just desires sex? How do I deal with my emotions? This will be in series. Let's get started, follow me.

FORMED THIS WAY
I want you to come to this knowledge that sexual desires are naturally positioned on the inside of us by the Almighty who made us all. So the longing for sex is natural. You are flesh, and blood flows through your veins, you definitely must react to stimulus. But you must note that this desire was technically placed to provide the lusciousness that comes with camaraderie upon matrimony.

Having this understanding will help you look forward to marriage instead of indulging in the norms. And don't forget that; As you think in your heart, so you are. (Paraphrasing the scripture). When your thoughts revolve around sensuality outside the marriage bed, your body will work in reaction to the signals from your mind. Sex was designed for marriage and the earlier this aligns with your thought process it helps you control yourself.

FIGHT OR FLEE
Living your life daily in a world filled with all sorts of immoral act, you definitely will be faced with sexual temptation. For instance, one night you were trying to fall asleep and all of a sudden sexual thoughts flooded your mind. Trust me, you will instantly be tempted to dwell on these thoughts in your mind. Or you were surfing the internet with a clear conscience only for a sensual ad to pop up. Now, you didn't ask for it. That wasn't what you were looking for. But there it is without stress. 🀦‍♀‍

Sexual temptation is bound to come in different ways and it often doesn't give notification.

You are entitled to two options when you are faced with the above. It's either you Fight it, or you Flee from it.
Imagine walking/driving through where there are sexualized billboards, you fight this by not looking at them(throway your face). Or you are having sexual thought in your head, you must make the choice of fighting it by killing that thought from your mind.

Secondly, you can flee from it. This is another considerable choice! You are expected to physically remove yourself from any form of temptation. If your friends start conversing dirty, leave the conversation. Get rid of that app on your phone that is tempting you towards lust. If you're watching a movie and it goes the other way round, please πŸ™ turn it off. Don't keep watching it. Don't start to form ”James Bond”(claiming to be strong enough). Runaway from the temptation before it will end in words like, ”it’s the work of the devil.”

This is what I call; first of all, introduction, awakening, and preparation of your mind. Get set for more tips in my next publication.






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